It's All About Family
Some family things are annoying and can make you want to belong to some other family. What can be annoying? While driving to school nice and early, the peace of a morning is shattered by dad slurping his coffee. When the majority in the car wants to hear some upbeat tunes, dad puts on something down and out, and obscure, from the 60s, and sings it really loud. Dad and mom kiss each other goodbye and do a fanny dance in front of the kids' friends and they think it's gross. Mom walks the kids right past the school door and says the most embarrassing things like, "I love you, don't pick your nose or suck your finger." But one thing we all depend upon our family for is belonging in a special family circle. Special is supposed to be something important to us-and there is nothing as special as a family!
Just like all families, the fictional "Family Guy"and the real Sarah Palin's family have their specialness (in Palin's case, special may sometimes refer to her son with Down Syndrome). Now, whether a family's specialness means the cool stuff, or the craziness, it's really just all part of being a family.
Being Included
It is special to be included. Nobody likes to be excluded-that can even bring on tears. A BFF (best friend forever) says, "I'm not your friend" and runs off to play with somebody else. A relay captain picks his team, but you are left hanging-out, praying not to be picked last. When we are included we feel wanted, important and necessary.
And so in a sense, one of the most wonderful things the "Family Guy" TV program shows is that any family member, no matter how zany or embarrassing, is part of the family circle.
Why the "Family Guy" is Special?
Who wants to a watch a TV show with some formulaic do-good role models anyway? Most of us would be more interested in viewing characters whose words and actions are truer to how real live people interact. The "Family Guy" does not suggest how to behave, or spend your time or how to do anything. It is a day to day account of the ordinary things that one family does. Making sense of it all is a trivia-spouting baby and a talking dog. Of course, this also makes the "Family Guy" both unusual and special. Another special thing about this show is it brings song and dance to all who watch. It's just like Broadway's raunchy, saucy, flashy, over the top musical theater. And isn't it hard to get musical theater these days without paying a fortune!
Can there be things that are annoying and downright disgusting about the show? Sure. But just like when you throw away your junk in a garage sale, and somebody sees it, loves it and will actually pay good money for a special treasure, there's no accounting for taste.
Valentine Special
In the Valentine episode that invoked Sarah, sweet overweight Chris confided that he really likes Ellen from his math class and would love to invite her to dinner. But he hasn't a stitch of confidence to be able to make a move, or a clue about gentlemanly ways. Stewie, the baby, offers "poetic" advice to this teen as musical theater singing about how to be a gentleman. He does refer to Ellen with many special accolades including ones that mentions that Ellen is (which is true both in the show and in real life) a Down syndrome girl. In his words, "Impress that effervescing, self-possessing, no-BS-ing, Down syndrome girl. Her eyes are emerald portals to a secret land of love and her smile is like the sweetest summer flower."
During the dinner date, Ellen, looking special but sounding not especially different from other girls, mentions some very casual information about herself including that her mother is the former Governor of Alaska. Now, don't you think just about every teen-aged girl who mentions her mother will immediately take that opportunity to go on a long rant about the woman? Whether it's fashion or truth, a little teen dissing of a mom, is part of the age. So, what could be nicer than this character feeling her mom is okay?
Getting a Laugh Out of It
As it turns out, when Chris takes Ellen home, he finds that Ellen is not special after all because, just like many so-called "regular" girls, she has the same imperfections that boys often complain about. What are those imperfections? Some might say it's a matter of being strong willed, proud, and having the courage to demand what you want; while others might say it's a matter of being a witch, and whatever rhymes with that! That is irony, which is not everyone's cup of special tea.
That's the kind of respectful daughter to be happy about! However, former Alaska governor and vice-presidential candidate Sarah. Palin insulted since everyone got the idea that the character, Ellen, is dumb because her mom is dumb. And here's where the shoe drops off the other foot and is the double whammy, or the rub-Ellen turns out to be not dumb, but a stuck up, full-of-herself "witch". And as they say, the apple does not fall far from the tree!
But, this is comedy, not your role modeling public TV broadcast. So Sarah, you were not even mentioned by name in the show. But next time, if you get a reference in a popular comedy, don't get upset, get a laugh about yourself. You've got to have annoying habits and imperfections like everyone else. And, take a page from another famous TV comic, Dana Carvey's immortal Church Lady, and think, "Well, isn't that special!"